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WHY I FIND HIM SO ATTRACTIVE: 8 QUALITIES WOMEN FIND TOTALLY HOT IN MEN!

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Good looks matter but this doesn’t mean you’ve got to bed the drop-dead-gorgeous “King Promise” or the very sexy “Ronaldo” type. But studies show there has to be some sort of physical “liking” in order for a girl to let her guard down and allow her vulnerability to show.

Keep in mind, girls usually pick the hot guy for the short-term romp and the average looking man for longer term relationships…Interesting eh?

Well, I decided to nose around to find out what most women find hot on men. You may not agree though but these are the 8 most said things .

THICK LIPS! Yes thick lips, most women find it hot when a guy has thick lips. “Yes no matter the color whether pink or not it’s turns me on when  I see a guy  with soft fleshy lips” said one  of the many women I spoke to. “I love my guy because I can chew his beef lips when we are kissing” said another. You may think its weird but this is fact. The reason why guys with thick lips are tagged good kissers.

SMALLER WAIST! WAIT, ARE YOU THINKING WTF? I THOUGHT SO TOO…….. I was bemused when I realized how complicated women can be on things they find hot on men. This is another revelation, men with smaller waist are found hotter and especially when they tuck in. “When I see a man with smaller waist then I begin to imagine how good he can ride in bed “.  A reply from another woman.

PLAYING HARD TO GET! Experts report today that women seem to like the guy that’s not so easy to get. In other words boys, playing hard to get might just put the ball in your court. Seriously, when you aren’t available, it just might make women want you more. *WINK*

HAIRY MEN! This one would not surprise you much. Another feature on men, women rank hot, is hair. Men with hair on chest and legs  are hot according to women. They enjoy the roughness of the hair when it rubs on their skin. “Whenever it prickles me it sends some indescribable sensation through the whole of my being “. Just as she said it.

MONEY TALKS! Women look for a man that shows he has some wealth. So if you have a fancy car or nice house, you will capture her attention before a man that still lives in his mother’s house and rides a bike.

THICKER EYEBROW! This one is truly a bit weird but when you’ve got the thick not thin eyebrows, you are showing your eyes off more and apparently that’s what the girls like. “Believe it or not it turns me on” says one excited lady

DEEP VOICE AND BROAD CHEST! Any of these makes guys hot as well. If you have both then you’re super hot. Broad chest and voice. Its just natural for women to want to be dominated by their men.  “Sweet words from a man with a deep voice makes me feel like a real woman”. Oh please dont look at me I didn’t say that. “I love to lay my head on his broad chest , l feel protected and secured. Those are words from another woman.

SMART AND FUNNY! When a girl is thinking about being attracted to you, there has to be some sense of humor in you and. Experts report that funny suggests intelligence and that’s totally sexy.  One other lady said, Smartly-funny is sexy.

 

AUTHOR: T.T.

WHY YOUR WOMAN DON’T REACH ORGASM DURING SEX!

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ORGASM!……UM…. DON’T BE SHY. YES YOU!

Sex is a pleasurable activity as well as a connecting one. Some people engage just for fun and pleasure but each time you have sex, you give a bit of yourself and take a little bit of the person. Like it or not, this connectivity makes sex a commitment. It is reported that most men have more orgasms than women on a normal sex day. Men release faster than women and sometimes the man goes limp leaving the woman with no orgasm due to the time space.
The art of sex can be much fun and can be frustrating as well. One can Ask, what am I doing or not doing right. Every man likes to have sex with a woman who enjoys it, screams his name and begs for more. If your woman doesn’t reach an orgasm every now and then, boy, you’re not doing something right.

ORAL SEX: Most young women are more likely than men to perform oral sex on their partner even if they don’t want to, according to researchers. Its always been a distasteful and big deal for men to perform oral sex on women. Men, please stop ignoring the clits, its needs some attention too and could help your woman in having orgasm.

NB: Ladies, please keep that cookie clean, fresh and smelling good so it can be properly “taken care of”

EXPERIMENT & SWITCH UP THINGS: Have fun and play. Allow your imaginations run wild during sex. Engage in a variety of sex acts.For example, vaginal sex plus oral sex would be linked to a higher likelihood of orgasm than either one of them alone. Explore all your body parts gainfully to achieve that earth shattering orgasm she deserves.

FIND HER G-SPOT: The G-Spot is an area of the female genitalia which is believed to possess a great amount of nerve endings that aid women to attain a stronger and longer orgasm. The location of the G-Spot varies in every woman. Tip for your quest; the G-Spot is mostly found inside the vagina and mostly surrounded by a rougher texture.

MAKE HER FEEL GOOD ABOUT HERSELF: A lot of women are insecure because some think they’re not good enough or don’t match up to a man’s standards. They’re thinking about how their face looks or what the fat on their belly is doing whether or not their cellulite is noticeable. If you need to make love to make her feel good about herself, take your time. Kiss every inch of her and make her feel she’s all you got. That way, she’ll  forget all her insecurities and allow her fantasies to come to play, then you can take her to her ecstasy and release.

TAKE YOUR TIME: This goes for both parties, it can take anywhere from a few minutes to mostly an hour to have an orgasm (20 minutes is typical, longer is totally normal). Orgasms are like childbirth: they take as long as they take, and each one is different. So just take your time and enjoy the upcoming pleasure.

AVOID DISTRACTIONS: Do not, I repeat do not be distracted by thoughts like, “What if this is taking too long?” or “What if my partner is bored?” or “What if I’m not even doing this right?” Just concentrate on pleasuring her and you will both have a wonderful and satisfying “joyful explosion”

 

NB:Mental exercises can sometimes work for men to delay their orgasm and so can firm pressure around the base of the penis. If premature ejaculation is a concern, you  may want to see a primary care doctor or urologist to find some techniques that might help.

BY PRISCA WOEDEM ABODAKPI (@_palmwine_)

10 THINGS ALL MALES SHOULD NEVER LEAVE BEHIND WHEN GOING OUT

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Before any male steps out to go somewhere whether a wedding, hangouts, see some friends or any other occasion, he makes sure that his dressing is on point, looks and smells good,am sure you get where I’m going with this. But before he steps out of the door, he must make it a point not to leave these 10 things at home. Well, you may  leave some but not more than two. Here are the 10 things every male should  make it a point to leave behind when stepping out.

Cell phone:
You must definitely not leave your cell phone at home no matter where you are going even if it’s a visit to a corner shop. It can be useful if you will get to the location late or earlier than appointed Or others my reach you on it in case of  emergency. So please don’t leave it at home.

 

Cap/Sunglasses
With this hot sun, you just can’t go out and face the sun without a cap or sunglasses. A cap goes for anyone actually but you can opt  for sunglasses because they add some style to your outfit even if they are not worn for what they were made for like protecting you from the sun.

Condoms:
In my opinion, It is very necessary for every guy to have at least one condom on him when going out. You never know what may happen out there, you could bump into an ex or even “catch a new fish” and you can’t control yourself, the condom becomes useful.

Earpiece/headphones:
You can pick up your earpiece before leaving and play your favorite playlist and put them on.  I prefer earphones/earpiece because they are smaller and convenient. But make sure tune down the volume for safety reasons.

Handkerchief and a Backup:
This is a necessity to have on you when going out. You must have at least two on you or maybe one handkerchief and a face towel. The reason for the backup is that you might loose the first one or you might bump into someone who might be in dear need of it.

Charger/ power bank
This should be added if you will be out for a long time and you think your phone’s juice won’t last all the way. So this is to keep your phone charged and avoid walking around with a dead cell phone.

Wrist watch/Bracelet:
Men are mostly noted by their wrist watches but some don’t really digg the vibe from wrist watches. That doesn’t mean you will have to let your wrist go around naked. At least a bracelet in any form, whether beads, leather, rubber, ornamented etc. Just make them feel good.

Wallet:
A Wallet is like a portable folder or account that contains I.D’s, ATM’s, phone cards, money, passport pictures, etc. So if you decide to leave this at home, then you have a big lesson to learn. Even if you don’t have money in it, just pick it up and let it be in your back pocket, it may come in handy and it also creates some illusion of having cash even when you are totally broke, especially if it’s a fat wallet with lots of documents and small amount of money.

Small comb:
This option isn’t for everyone especially those with really down haircut. But if you fancy hair and you keep yours, get a small comb, put it in your back pocket and use it in a restroom when you get the chance to check yourself in the mirror.

Pen:
This is mandatory, just in case you bump into someone who needs a pen or y or fill something out, you won’t be caught in hot waters.

 

BY JEREMIAH AWUKU

12 ANNOYING THINGS MEN DO THAT WOMEN DISLIKE

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Annoying things…..Men are very interesting creatures, so adorable. You wouldn’t even know what to do with them. They can be thoughtful, caring and so sweet that they make you fall so hard and yet there are certain things they do that are nerve racking and this can be so frustrating since we are having sex with them right? These men can drive women crazy— not in the (YOU DRIVE ME CRAZY) sense that Britney Spears has been singing about. I mean you drive me crazy in the “why are you this way” kind of way. Boys, ever wondered if the way you act sometimes make women cringe? There are certain that make us girls want to run far away and not come back. Here are some common things that men do that women secretly hate

⦁ “Just the tip” just the tip? Excuse me sir? No way! If your lollipop makes contact with my cookie there sure will be penetration and that is sex! And please stop making us out to be uptight

⦁ Getting mad when we have our periods like it’s our fault we have to deal with this monthly doom. Trust us we do not relish having to bleed for five days. We want to have sex too

⦁ Stop ignoring the clitoris. It has feelings too and oh stop asking if we came already

⦁ Being feminists doesn’t make all women man haters

⦁ Stop sending pics of your dick if we wanted to see it, we would have told you. No matter how impressive it is, it’s just not very romantic

⦁ Checking out other women while in our presence (boorish)

⦁ Stop skimping on your personal hygiene, take a shower and wash your cracK more often with soap, and whats with you guys not changing sheets regularly and also thinking it’s alright to keep wearing dirty socks and the overdoing it with the cologne thingy

⦁ Leaving the toilet seat up this one is a classic but let me ask, what is so difficult about putting down the toilet seat for Pete sake?

⦁ Getting upset when we steal your clothes, they are really comfy, okay? So please get over it. Plus we also look cute in it don’t even try to deny it.

⦁ Stop asking us to carry your stuff, get your own purse

⦁ Stop rubbing your junk on us when dancing in a club

⦁ When we tell you we are in a relationship, stop trying to get with us, not cool

Hey don’t get too worked up when you recognize some of the traits above in yourself, the deal here is not to change your personality but rather to keep certain female-unfriendly behaviors in check.

 

 

 

 

 

12 ANNOYING THINGS WOMEN DO THAT MEN DISLIKE

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Annoying things women do……Dear ladies, embrace yourselves, because this one is coming for you. As you read though, treat the exposed information as counsel on how to be better but not to demean you. Ask yourself, would you put up with yourself if you were a man? So now, take a deep breath and read on to find out things that you do that make men want to disappear.
1. Expecting men to read your minds like they are some sort of psychics. Men aren’t very good mind readers. In fact, they often have difficulty just figuring out what women mean with the words they speak. They think women are far more sophisticated communicators than they are.

2. Stop over doing it with the makeup, keep it natural ladies. Men don’t want to lean in for a kiss and come out looking like a clown. Remember, foundation is supposed to be invisible and blend in with your skin. Keep the makeup on a minimal

3. Stop saying other girls bring ‘too much drama when you are the dramatic queen who loves to create a storm in a glass of water.

4. Stop saying you are fine when you’re obviously not. We aren’t in romantic movie, grow up and tell them what’s wrong or don’t get mad when they don’t take the hint.

5. Stop acting like it’s the duty of men to do all the work and take care of everything, get off that pretty butt and get something doing. Trust me men don’t like it when a girl thinks that he has to do all the work, drive every time to her, always buy her stuff, make her feel better but not giving anything in return. They are not money making machines and they go broke too, so sometimes you could split a bill or you could pay. After all what a man can do, a woman can do better right?

6. Let go of the past, a man easily gets annoyed when a woman cannot let go of the things long gone and keeps bringing it up to cause a fight.

7. Stop yelling and nagging ladies. No one wants to be told over and over again that they are doing something wrong.You have no idea how men get annoyed when they are  being shouted at, especially trying to solve a problem by arguing and yelling about it in front of everyone.

8. Stop emasculating them in front of their friends, it’s not appreciated.

9. Stop shaving off your eyebrows and then coloring them back on.

10. Taking forever to decide what to eat. Being indecisive, you’re a grown woman figure it out

11. Stop sending insane messages if they don’t respond to your texts immediately.
“3:00: hi
3:02: babe
3:03: are you there?
3:07: are you really ignoring me!
3: 14 are you with someone?
3:17: fine, enjoy
3: 19 it’s over between us!
3:22 babe I’m kidding….
3:24 just say something
3:30 [crying emoji]
Hey sorry busy at work whats up? 3:40
3:41 omg I’m sorry please forgive me

12. Stop using that silly Snapchat filter with the dog nose and tongue. Sweetheart, you don’t look cute.  *winkwink

Well, there you have it ladies but remember this information is intended to give insight into what men are thinking. Without straight and candid communication, we can’t solve the issues that threaten to end so many relationships.

WATCH OUT FOR OUR NEXT ARTICLE ON ANNOYING THINGS MEN DO THAT WOMEN DISLIKE .